Anyway, the reason I am posting is to vent...
My headliner on my myspace is the following pic:
So a person I will not name, just know this person is not yet married, sent me a message telling me she thought it was inappropriate for it to be my headliner since I am married and "supposed" Christian. And I should not post icons like that.
I just simply replied... Do you not plan on marrying your future best friend? Is God not one of your best friends, and who are you to decide whether or not someone is a Christian?
Their reply: I'm not stupid! I know that when I am married I will not put my bestfriends before my husband. That will make my marriage last longer than yours.
Okay I didn't reply tonight, because I had a feeling it would start an even bigger thing but here is my reply that I wanted to send... Obviously you don't get it. Shawn is one of my best friends, he is besides God the top priorities in my life. And Where in that icon does it say that I am putting my other friends before my marriage. And Where does it say that my marriage is in trouble or that it isn't going to last???? So I know people have different thinking patterns but really the icon is what it says, it isn't a piece of art work that has some underlining meaning behind it and who has time to try to analyze someones life by a simple icon they post? If you ask me maybe you should analyze your own life instead of mine, because really all you are doing is assuming and you the old saying that when you assume you are really just making a ... yea so hopefully you get the point.
So I am just curious what people get from the icon....what it says, or do you find yourself trying to analyze my life over it? Because maybe I am wrong and thats fine its just something I never expected over such a small pink icon.
So anyway I feel better that I have vented...
Here are the lyrics to my newest favorite song. It has been on there all day... maybe she should have listened to it. Okay enough about it!
"Isn't That Everything"
by Danielle Peck
I might not have a million dollars in the bank
But Ive got food on my table and gas in my tank
I might not have designer sheets on a king size bed
But I lay down at night with a roof over my head
Yeah Ive got friends who love me
And a big blue sky above me
And your two arm around me baby every night
Isnt that everything
I dont need anything
Its only the simple things I believe
That matter most in life
Im more than satisfied
All that I have is all I need
Isnt that everything
Im not saying I dont dream from time to time
Every girl I know loves the way a diamond shines
But when the partys over and the glitter starts to fade
Its all about your peace of mind at the end of every day
I know Jesus loves me
Up in that sky above me
I see that morning sun again and feel alive
Chorus
Yeah Ive got friends who love me
And a big blue sky above me
And your two arm around me baby every night
I know Jesus loves me
Up in that sky above me
I see that morning sun again and feel alive
5 comments:
Cool song! Who sings it? I would love to hear it.
BTW you do know that even far away you can call us at anytime day or night - right? We can't come to you if that's what you need but we can listen and pray with you! Love you!
Oh yeah & I didn't address your venting question. I see nothing wrong with the posting. I agree that Jesus is your best friend & your spouse is your 2nd best friend (as we used to say in grade school). I believe that the reason marriages fail is the couple cease to be friends & lovers both.
Hey, ditto on the calling at anytime. I hear from your hubby but I miss hearing from you. Oh and for your question - RC is my best friend - God is my best friend So I agree that the Best Accessory a Girl can have are her best friends, because with out God and RC I would be just me (and we all know how screwed up that would be) Plus when you have an accessory that looks as good as my hubby well then need I say more :)
Self-righteous idiots deserve nothing but your silence.
Keep on with your best friends... I know I will.
I never replied to her second message. Yes I know I can call you anytime and sometime I might take you up on that.. but it was a matter of I can't have shawn comforting me right now so I want my DADDY!! If you know what I mean. And what do you mean you can't come to me? We really do need to get that private jet up and running lol :) You can listen to the song on my myspace profile. It is by Danielle Peck I think? The one that sings findin me a good man.
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